Your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors can be influenced by what is happening in the present, but are also informed by what you have experienced in the past. Therapy has the potential to help you gain insight into how the past and present interact, which may increase your ability to more effectively navigate your life choices moving forward.
Over time, you may find that you begin to slow down, notice, and work through patterns of thinking, feeling, behaving and relating that have interfered with your life. You may also find that you expand your ability to solve problems differently and increase your overall level of enjoyment in various aspects of life.
As one psychologist put it, "The goal [of therapy] is that you should know yourself more fully...to be more fully human, and a better version of yourself” (Dr. Jonathan Shedler).
The process of psychotherapy is a collaborate experience between you and me. The first few sessions will be spent getting to know each other, clarifying your presenting concerns, identifying a formal diagnosis (if there is one), and discussing what might be a helpful course of action. Treatment frequency and duration can vary, depending on your presenting concerns, and is informed by multiple relevant factors. Determining length of treatment is also a collaborative process and I encourage you to ask any questions you might have about your treatment during our work together.
It is important to keep in mind that there are several different approaches to therapy, and some forms of therapy (and therapists themselves) are not always the best fit for some patients. I will do my best to be attuned to this throughout treatment, and welcome you to openly share your thoughts and feelings about this with me as well. I will be more than willing to provide you with referrals to other therapists in the community if you do not feel my style of therapy is a good fit for you.